Is it Holy?

Hi everyone,

It's been a bit since I've written. I've been trying to stay busy. My 4th chemo of 6 is this Thursday (10/13). I am on the downhill y'all!!!! Praise the Lord and thanks be to God!!!!

I've been catching up with friends, spending time with Mark and Matt, decluttering the house and getting out of the house as much as possible. The weather has been a huge blessing. I love fall and the crisp temps agree with me!!

Matt and I spent a really FUN night at Dave & Busters in White Flint Mall. He got to hang out with his long time friend Patrick, Patrick's brother Adam (giant cheesburger!) and Adam's friend Lucas. I got to spend time with my friend and meal planner extraordinaire Kim. We had a blast and did not get home until after midnight. I actually felt like a normal person... out having fun and staying up late.

Yesterday we attended a new service at the Westminster United Methodist Church. My sister, Lisa, and my nieces, Lindsay and Carly, attend this church. Linz and the youth group formed a youth Praise band and they held their first service on Sunday. It was so refreshing. Lots of great tunes by their band. They think the name of their band will be "The Awesome Band". But they are sitll not sure.

Many of you have prayed for my niece Linsday. Your prayers are working!! I have never seen her happier. She played a key role in forming The Awesome Band and establishing the youth service for WUMC. What a blessing!

In addition to awesome music, a silent skit, live video (have to see it to understand it), liturgical dancing and a very innovative communion... we heard an incredible message delievered by one of the college students, Rebecca. She was so inspiring. I wish I could completely capture the essence of her words. But basically her theme was "Is it Holy?" She was a natural speaker and wanted us to think "Is it Holy?" each time we are faced with a decision. If only I had the faith that this young college student exuded. I was in awe.

Thanks to meal planner extraordinaire Kim I connected with an non-profit organization that is nationwide "Cleaning For A Reason". This non-profit connects cancer patients with cleaning services that donate their time. We have been approved for 4 monthly cleanings with Kidwell Kleaning Service in Urbana. This company does not get paid. They donate the time and pay the employees.

I am in awe of the blessings bestowed on our family during this crappy time of our lives!! Now who else could use the words crappy and blessing in a sentence??!! You all know me and my sense of humor! What a time in my life...

I continue to count the blessings that have poured over me, Mark and Matt during this incredibly stressful and crappy time!! Blessings come in so many forms... be sure to be aware of the blessings in your life.

Is cancer a blessing? NO! But... what surrounds it and the things that come because of it certainly are blessings.

I luv U all! Remember Rebecca's challenge. The next time you are faced with a decision, small or large, ask yourself "Is it Holy?"...
Jude